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Making A Man Fall In Love With You

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

You are very attracted to this guy, but you do not know what to do to make him attracted to you too. How can you really make a man fall in love with you? Unfortunately, the bad news is that there is no magic formula to do just that. Falling in love is an exciting thing. But it does not happen in just a minute, right? Here is the good news though, there are many more things you can do to keep him very interested in you!

First, just be your own self. Since many men are highly independent, they want to make up their own minds about everything and anything. Men do not want you to tell them what to do. Specifically, they hate to feel they are being deceived into liking or disliking something. Don’t pretend to be a football fan when in truth you hated it, just because he loves football! It is better to be yourself when you try to please a guy.

Second, love yourself. When you love yourself, you do not put yourself down. Putting yourself down makes other people think that you are really that person and they will think you are really boring. Make yourself interesting. Also, be aware of what you will say before you actually say it. Take care of yourself physically. Eat well and do exercises when you can. You will feel better about yourself, and you will be naturally healthy and attractive. If you love yourself, then he is much more likely to love you too.

Third, be an interesting person. So how can you start with that? The best way to be an interesting person is to do interesting things. Do you spend every evening waiting for the phone to ring or watching movies on TV? Start a new hobby, enroll in an evening class, meet new people, join a sports club. One thing to remember, do not be critical of others. Spreading gossips and saying how much you hate someone will only reflect badly on you.

Fourth, admire your man. Let him be aware that you like him as a friend. If you have fallen in love with him at first sight, it is best to just keep it yourself. Wait for him to be the first to say “I love you” to you.

Men really love to be admired. But if you cling to them, they will run as fast as they can. However, if you admire and believe in him without being demanding, then he is most likely willing to do anything for you. It is fine to tell him openly that you admire something he does. Any sentence that starts with “I really admire the way you …” is a sure winner. First, love yourself and be happy with your life, then you will surely make him fall in love with you.